A method for scaling (or adaptively distributing) compute resource consuming responsibilities amongst multiple participants of any given collaboration solution session. Specifically, the disclosed method analyzes mesh networking pertinent state (or changes thereof), associated with the various participants, using multi-user constrained optimization to produce mesh network configurations (or adjustments thereto). A mesh network configuration, subsequently, outlines a set of adaptive compute operations, pertinent to the management of a given collaboration solution session, which may be optimally distributed across the various participants based on their current state and user-imposed resource or capability budgets (if any).